Matthew 7
Have you ever noticed that not all parking spots are created equal? I remember being a new driver and thinking I was much better than I was. There was a brief window of time when I’d confidently cut through traffic and park right in front of the store, thinking I could squeeze into the tightest spaces. Once, in front of Major Market, I misjudged my skill and ended up bumping my car into the tire of the one parked next to me. Luckily, there was no damage, and the driver got out laughing, saying, “I knew there was no way you could make that spot!” His response wasn’t to condemn my error but to show understanding and humor instead of judgment.
This experience brings me to a question: Have you ever been at the crossroads of discerning how to respond or quickly condemning a situation?
In Matthew 7, Jesus shows us how to handle these crossroads. Whether speaking to the Samaritan woman at the well or confronting those misusing the temple, Jesus always began with discernment. He reminds us that we’ve been given minds to think, hearts to feel, and the ability to lean into each moment to glorify God with our actions.
Yet, we sometimes misunderstand Jesus’ teachings on judgment. People often quote, “Judge not, that you be not judged,” with good intentions. But Jesus doesn’t mean for us to shut off our brains or abandon our ability to discern what’s right or wrong. Instead, He reminds us to recognize our own biases and flaws—our “specks and logs” (verses 3-5)—so we can see clearly. He calls us to discern both within the church and outside it, knowing when to speak and when to hold back, letting the Holy Spirit guide our responses.
Despite our best intentions, we still sometimes misstep, letting condemnation slip through or failing to discern a situation fully. Like my minor parking accident, we may find ourselves misjudging a turn or misreading the moment. But at each crossroads we face, may we seek Jesus’ guidance. When we ask for His help, He’s always there, ready to guide us.
I am praying that He is directing you at your crossroads. If you ever need guidance, just call out to Him. Praying for you all.
Pastor Jeremy Johnson